Before we get into that, we want to make sure that you know how to ask for the second date. Most of those rules are garbage, antiquated fancy word for outdatedand do you more harm than good. When it comes to how long you should wait between a first and second date, there are no hard and fast rules. What you need to be looking at is what works best for you and the guy or gal that you went out with. If you go out early in the week like a Monday or Tuesday and things go awesome, you can try and set something up for the upcoming weekend. If the only reason you went out early in the week was because they work weekends, try and set something up for the next Monday or Tuesday. If you go out on the weekend and things go great, you probably want to look into scheduling something the following weekend. If they happen to be busy within the first week after your date, work to get a second date scheduled as quickly as possible after that. Why did we feel like it was important to point out that these are the rules for when things go amazingly?
At the outset dates are always a risk. You might not fancy the person after they show up, or you capacity end up getting ghosted — before worse — afterwards. But taking the chance is necessary if you always want to find a meaningful affiliation. Nobody wants to text back after that forth forever, and eventually you'll allow to meet the person you're chat to.
This is not to be confused along with the guys who are in the friend zone. Women only put guys in the friend zone whom they are not attracted to. This is no new trend; this happens altogether the time. The greatest power couples are born from this male addiction of lurking. Think about it. Kanye waited around for Kim for years.